What a wonderful fall week it has been. The leaves are changing, the air is bright, the sky is blue, blue and everything is settling in. I love this time of year! These classes will begin the week of October 22, 2007. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page: Feelings is a new special class for members of the community who have less experience in making sense of feelings in a healthy way. You will get language and an opportunity to do some role play. It will be safe and fun. Those of you in the UK are especially welcome to this class. This is a class to learn how to recognize feelings and find vocabulary to describe them. Doing The Program on a Budget is a special free class for those of you with limited funding who are trying to make do. Come hear some fun ideas to maintain your humor and find tasty and inexpensive solutions. Resource Center Tour is another one of our free walking tours through the website. This one takes you through the resource center. Explore all the nooks and crannies and discover things you did not know were there. Store Tour is a free guided tour of the store. David will be leading this class so if you want to get to know the guy that makes it all work, come sign up. This is his first teaching experience, so you can show your support for the work he does to keep you happy. These classes will begin the week of October 31, 2007. Please click on the name of the class you wish to join and it will take you to the registration page: Handling the Holidays: Thanksgiving is a special class to help you prepare for the holdiays in a centered and reflective way. We love this class. I hope you will join us. Step 2 Journal: Skillful Use is the next level of journaling. This is for those of you who know *how* and want to learn what to do with your data. This class shows you how to interpret what you have written in an exciting and pragmatic way. Step 3: Three Meals is one of our core classes. This is a skill-based class. If you want to learn the baby steps of a successful step 3, come join us. This class is ALWAYS fun. The class schedule is on line. Click here to see what is planned. Please do not sign up for classes that are not yet scheduled. A number of you have asked me how the classes work. Check the class list page for more information on this. The classes are done online and you do not have to be at your computer at any set time. It does not matter whether you are in the US, Europe, the Far East or Australia, you simply respond on your own time. And although I advertise that the classes are one or two weeks, sometimes we are a little flexible and they may run longer. And please go read the questions and answers before you write to me. If you have trouble getting through the process, write the tech forum. Please feel free to pass this week's newsletter on to your friends and family. Don't forget to let me know what you like and would like to see me cover. Be sure to visit our Radiant Recovery® website and Community Forum regularly. Warmly, Kathleen **********************************************************************
October 22, 2007 ** Quote From Kathleen **
Rather than responding to problems or roadblocks with tears, you will start anticipating and solving problems. *********************************************************************
** Testimonial for the Week**
Karen, Step 7 I went out with some girlfriends to see the Atonement at the pics. We arranged to meet at 6:30 for something to eat first. This being too late for me - I had a shake and ryvita at about 4:00 pm as a planned snack. It was decided to eat at the Italian next to the cinema. We went in and all my pals ordered large glasses of wine and I had a big glass of water whilst we browsed the menu. I quickly found the main courses that were neither pasta or rissoto or pizza and selected from the 5 dishes there. I joined in chatting and laughing and thought how easy it was for me. They were all wondering what to have and my thought process went something along the lines of .....umm, that sounds nice, ah wine in the sauce, no. Ohh chicken with...ah served with rice and wine in the sauce again. I'll skip that. Ohh...cod in tomato and olives with green beans and new potatos - perfect! Protein, veggies and browns And I like cod. Great. I'll have that. Put menu down choice made. Everyone else had to read the entire menu LOL. We all laughed when the meal was served. My little place setting looked just so "healthy" with its mineral water and delicious main dish. Then afterwards I ordered a decaf coffee before going off to the film. I had a great evening - and realised I love going out with my pals - even if they all do drink wine, eat pasta and have desert as part of the night out! I don't need to do that to be part of the gang - I'm just me and that is fine. Oh - and the film was great too. (smile) ********************************************************************
This is from the Radiant Recipes Cookbook. BRAISED RED CABBAGE WITH APPLES AND PEARS
Note: If raspberry vinegar is unavailable, substitute with another "fruity" vinegar, such as apple cider, golden, balsamic, sherry, or red wine vinegar. Do not use distilled white vinegar, as the taste will be too acidic. Naomi's note: never use white vinegar in cooking - but it is great for cleaning your kitchen :-) ********************************************************************
**Your Last Diet: More Than What You Think**
YLDonline is a membership program run directly by Kathleen DesMaisons herself. I just had my check in at the gym. I have lost 12 pounds and 10 inches in the last 3 months. This is exciting news. I love really engaging the program and getting results. I am going to be sharing the insider’s track in chat this week. I look forward to seeing you there! If you are not a YLD member, come and join us. Click here if you are ready to change your life or just plain ole have fun. ********************************************************* ***********
**Radiant Recovery Store **
David manages the Radiant Recovery Store. He is also Kathleen’s oldest son.
Please send questions and suggestions. I love hearing from you and truly want to help you do your program better. ********************************************************* ***********
**Our Online Groups**
Hi, I’m Jeannie, the liaison for the Radiant Step 6 list. Perhaps you are steady on the first five steps and contemplating your sugar detox. Or you may already be on step six but struggling. You may be wondering why you are bored or restless, since sugar detox was supposed to solve everything--wasn’t it? Or maybe you’d like to share your excitement about reaching this milestone in your program. If so, come join us on the Step 6 list! We offer support and encouragement in achieving a successful sugar detox and in holding tight until everything settles down afterward. We are learning more all the time about this fascinating step and how profoundly it transforms our bodies and brains. ********************************************************************
**Step 1**
Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D. Ok,
that is a great start. Let's think now about shifting into Step One. There are
4 parts to Step One: Ÿ
Eat
enough protein for your weight Ÿ
Eat
a complex carbohydrate Ÿ
Eat
within one hour of getting up Ÿ
Eat
breakfast every day You
will not need to jump from nothing to all in one step. Let's break these parts
up into a sequence that you can actually do. Ÿ
Eat
breakfast every day Starting
tomorrow, you will have breakfast every morning. Plan now what you can have for
tomorrow's breakfast. Make it something you like and can manage. If you will
fix it at home, make sure you have what you need in the house. If you will go
out for breakfast, think through how much time you will need and where you will
go. Do
not scare yourself. If you are used to having just coffee, have your coffee
first so you get the caffeine hit and are not cranky. If you cannot stand the
idea of eating, just get a bagel with cream cheese or something really simple. Ÿ
Eat
enough protein for your weight Ok,
do this one in two phases. First simply make sure you get some protein. Use
your fist as a guideline: have a fist-sized portion of protein at breakfast.
Obviously, if you weigh more or have a bigger fist, you will need to eat more
protein. The fist-sized portion applies to protein that you can actually hold
in your hand. So milk wouldn't count as a good meal protein. Cottage cheese
does. Protein foods include
Your body
needs protein for a whole number of things. Your body needs protein to produce
amino acids that run your body. They build and rebuild cells and repair things
that are broken. For sugar-sensitive people, one particular amino acid,
tryptophan is particularly critical. Tryptophan is the raw material that your
body uses to make serotonin. Without sufficient raw material from tryptophan,
your serotonin factory can't make what you need. Protein supplies the
tryptophan that is the raw material. This
is NOT a high protein plan. It is a regular and consistent protein plan. How
much protein should you have? As
you master getting some protein into every breakfast, you can being to look at
how much you actually need for your body weight. If you divide your total body
weight in half, you will get the approximate number of grams of protein you
should have in a day. For example if you weigh 150 pounds, you would have about
75 grams of protein in a day. Divide the result by three to find out how much
protein you should have at each meal. Your breakfast will include that number of
grams of protein each morning. So a 150-pound person would be having
approximately 25 grams of protein at each meal. If you are a very large person
(over 250 pounds), you will want to have less than proportion because the
ratio of your body fat to your lean muscle mass is so much higher. Have no more than 42 grams of protein
at breakfast regardless of your weight. Work
out how much protein you need for breakfast: My
weight = ___________ Half
my weight = ______________ This
equals the grams of protein I need every day. One
third of the total grams for the day
= __________This is what I need at each meal. I
need _________ grams of protein for breakfast. Ok,
terrific. Let's do one more exercise to make sure you understand that process.
Circle the best breakfast protein gram estimate for each body weight given:
How does this translate
to food? How much *food* you should have to get
the number of grams of protein you want for your meal plan. You may remember from high school that
there are 28 grams in one ounce. Don't be fooled into thinking if you need 28
grams of protein, you will just eat one ounce of meat. Even though 28 grams
equals one ounce, grams of protein do NOT equal ounces of food. A
food item is weighed in ounces.
Each ounce of that food contains grams of fat, carbohydrates, and
water. So, each protein food
source includes different amounts of protein Ð measured in grams. Dense protein sources (meat, chicken,
fish) contain more grams of protein per ounce than not so dense sources (milk,
yogurt). In our program, we mainly count the proteins from dense sources to
maximize your body's healing and keep things really simple. When you are
getting started, you can count the less dense ones like milk and yogurt as
well. The
more dense protein sources contain somewhere between 7 and 9 grams of protein
in an ounce. So for example, a 4
ounce chicken breast has about 32 grams of protein, but 4 ounces of tofu has
only 16 grams of protein.
Here
is a list of typical protein contents for many of the protein foods you might
eat:
If
you are a bigger person and need more protein, this may seem hard at first. The
trick is to mix and match your protein. So you might have eggs and sausage or make an omlette with cottage cheese
in it. To
get you started, here is a list of breakfast foods with their protein content.
Let's play with this and see what will work for
you. Gretel, the liaison for the recovery list and the webmaster, puts it all together Naomi gathers the recipes. David, who runs the Radiant Recovery® Store talks about what new products we have. You are getting the weekly newsletter from Radiant Recovery® in response to your signup. A copy of this newsletter may also be found posted on the web at http://www. radiantrecovery.com/weeklynewsletter.htm. ©2007 by Kathleen DesMaisons . All rights reserved. You are free to use or transmit this article to your ezine or website as long as you leave the content unaltered and use this attribution: "By Kathleen DesMaisons, Ph.D. of Radiant Recovery®. Please visit Kathleen's website at http://www.radiantrecovery.com for additional resources on sugar sensitivity and healing addiction." Please notify me at kathleen@radiantrecovery.com to let me know where the material will appear. Banner Photograph by Patti Holden, Step 7 |