: You made me laugh with the interest
: in "cake."

yes I am still noticing the length of the thread

I still call anything that goes after dinner, "pudding", that being my britspeak for afters, sweet or dessert, so berries would be pudding to me. Actually so would cheese or I'll even have decaf 'for pudding' to join in with everyone else in a restaurant. I am planning some berries with coconut cream at the weekend. I know I will enjoy it, want to see what my journal says.

its very reassuring to know where one is when it comes to the enjoyment of something versus the attraction, isnt it?