Barbara welcome!
This is a great place to be and trust me we all do have horror stories to tell. For me, many years of them. Kathleen is just trying to redirect you to other places in the community where you can share that story and reserve this particular forum for solutions and healing. This is a very caring and loving place to be and we'd love to support you wherever we can.

There is a great group of people on this forum that have amazing ideas of ways to support. Please keep an open mind to what is being said because the journey is well worth it. Your post did not set anyone off on a wrong note or tone.....we all understand where everyone comes from when they join this forum.

Let us know how we can best support you.

Warm regards,
Terri F

: Sorry my e-mail did not set the
: right tone. I will not trouble you
: again. Regards Barbara.