I am hoping maybe can help me with this. I am totally obsessed with my husband health and constantly giving advice to him. This is because of my love for him, but I know it isn't the right way to approach it. He is definitely sugar sensitive however he is at a good weight for his body, but he does have some very worrying health issues and drinks pot after pot of coffee.

And now since I have bugged him so much about it, he is sneaking it and telling me it is just decaf. I want to stop nagging him about it and I go for weeks with not saying anything and then I'll break down and say something. Also it seems the more I try to fix him. the more I don't take care of me. I know my behavior is not helpful and would flip out if he were doing the same to me about any area of my eating.

Why would I continue doing this when I know it doesn't work? And how can I stop worrying about him and get healthy myself. Anybody else run into this problem?

Thanks
Sarah