Hi Dodi,

I went into Amazon to see if I could find Nano Transformation, and sure enough, there it was, and YOUR name is in the book too!! Your DH appreciates all the chores you've taken upon yourself to allow him to focus on his writing

I must say I quite understand you about not being able to talk to him about browns/timing and such. From the start, I avoided burdening my hubby with the details. I say "burdening" because I know that's what it would feel like to him. He would want to see results, never mind the process. Not that he negates the concept of process, but I know he would not understand why he has to know all the particulars.

That's what ladies are for - we like to discuss and debate about the ins and outs of the road to the results. Men are more interested in outcome. I really don't think it's your hubby's idiosyncracy. I think it is the difference between men and women in general. It took me a long time to be able to appreciate that. I often took it as a personal insult - he's not interested in me - but I don't feel that way any more.

So that's where the forum comes in. You are right in coming here for support

As for nano transformations, now THERE'S a topic you could talk to him about!!
Ask him about it......listen to his point of view on it. Come with a beginner's mind, lol, even though we talk about it a lot here. Talk about it as a subject that interests you from his book, and maybe even ask him to suggest how you might implement it in your program. Maybe that way he can become a bit more engaged in your nano transformations

Sarit

: I’ve posted before about my husband’s
: disinterest in my program. It has
: really gotten me down at times
: when I don’t feel his support.
: He’s just at a point where it’s
: “don’t talk to me about it, just
: do it and show me it works”.
: That’s why this forum is so
: important to me, because otherwise
: I don’t get to talk about such
: things as browns, timings, and
: nano steps.

: Anyway, he’s been working on writing
: a book, which I haven’t had the
: privilege to read until just
: recently (Amazon published it!)
: His title? Nano Transformation.
: Maybe we are on the same
: wavelength after all!