Though I can rationalize leaving the door closed it doesn't feel right still. I thought at some point when we get 'better' we can address old issues. Hard to just let them be and move on. ALmost like no closure and hard to move forward without it. What do you mean 'qualified people'?

Is this a sugar problem or a therapy issue?

: Wow, kudos to you for being so
: self-actualized. It can sometimes
: be nearly impossible for people to
: get that kind of insight and
: especially for themselves! I agree
: with the other post about leaving
: that door closed. However, going
: forward I would say don't be
: afraid to let qualified people
: into your life and be willing to
: exchange that energy with them.
: You have to risk yourself in
: relationships-- and usually-- when
: you choose wisely-- it is far more
: rewarding than simply retaining
: that energy for yourself. And if
: you take a fall, trust that you
: can get back up and try again the
: wiser.