That seems to be what is happening with me. I do call or want to call when I am feeling low. If no answer I tend to eat a bowl of ice creme. Then I feel better for a while. And when I feel really good I don't have a need to call. SO I used him and 'them' to raise my levels. I just knew I felt more alive. Like I was connected again. But we do need to feel connected to people. I wonder what is the difference?

: Hi Kathy

: I had a similar problem to yourself,
: but I was the person who asked
: someone else to stop contacting
: me. They did so for 5 months last
: year and then started it up again.

: The last time I was in contact with
: them was a few weeks before
: Christmas, and I told them that as
: they had not changed, I would not
: be contacting them into another
: Christmas and New Year, but I
: wished them a Happy Christmas and
: they did the same to me, and I
: have not heard from them since,
: luckily.

: The times they would usually contact
: me was when their chemicals were
: low (usually after a drink), so
: their serotonin was not sufficient
: enough to stop them from
: contacting me, and they
: technically were also using me to
: raise their BE's. When mine were
: low I always replied to their
: messages. I cannot be sure that
: they will stick to what I have
: asked, but the fact that I have
: started 2012 this way and
: determined to stick with what I
: have said, I am positive that I
: shall not reply to them if they
: were to contact me again.

: Perhaps it is when your chemicals are
: low, like mine were, that you are
: tempted to contact this person?

: Hope that helps

: Love

: Jane
: xx