Hi Kathy

I had a similar problem to yourself, but I was the person who asked someone else to stop contacting me. They did so for 5 months last year and then started it up again.

The last time I was in contact with them was a few weeks before Christmas, and I told them that as they had not changed, I would not be contacting them into another Christmas and New Year, but I wished them a Happy Christmas and they did the same to me, and I have not heard from them since, luckily.

The times they would usually contact me was when their chemicals were low (usually after a drink), so their serotonin was not sufficient enough to stop them from contacting me, and they technically were also using me to raise their BE's. When mine were low I always replied to their messages. I cannot be sure that they will stick to what I have asked, but the fact that I have started 2012 this way and determined to stick with what I have said, I am positive that I shall not reply to them if they were to contact me again.

Perhaps it is when your chemicals are low, like mine were, that you are tempted to contact this person?

Hope that helps

Love

Jane
xx

: Oh Camille, I sincerely appreciate
: your comments. It has helped me to
: see my actions in a clearer light
: that I can better understand now.
: I needed to read that because I
: was getting weak again. I
: noticed I get weak when I need some
: emotional support because I have
: alot going on. So do you think
: reading about raising BE is the
: way to go in this case?

: Kathy