Ok, so now we are to the heart of this process. I want to help you 
connect to some ideas that can be profoundly transformational.

As you know, our work here is about something different. First we heal the
addiction. This is what allows you to do the *underneath* work. When
you are in an addictive state, you cannot even get close to it.



Then we will come over to diethead and kiss it on its little black
nose. We will love you into wellness. and Diet head will say awww, ok. 

Diet head has a lot of skill to bring to the table. This is what you
have started to see.

persistence
how to count
willingness
excitement
and all those other things you have listed.

We want to give her a new job and do more than thank her, We want to
USE the good skills. Remember, diet wants success passionately. Think
of how she has tried. She tried, and tried. Think how many books she
 has read. Think of how many things she has explored on your behalf.

Bless her, be grateful for all she has done. Think of the time, the
 money, the commitment she has asked for and you have so willingly 
given.She is so persistent, and so loyal.



We want to empower her. We want to say, hey baby, have I got a plan
for you. Think of how she will respond when you say, hey baby, wanna
 keepa your job? Have I got something for you to do…….

Be kind, get her excited, tell her chats are treats. Challenge her 
with something interesting and tell her FINALLY success is coming.

What do you think of this idea? Does it make sense?



kathleen